Gray Family

First Generation

Second Generation

Samuel Gray was probably the oldest son. He bought land in the Borden tract himself in 1747, and was executor of his father's will and guardian of his younger brother Joseph. William was also of age at the time of his father's death, and was guardian of the younger brother Benjamin.

Update, May 15, 2008: At this point the story gets confusing, however. There are two different men named Samuel Gray, and family histories claim each as the son of John and Agnes Gray of Virginia. After looking at the data provided by someone researching the other Samuel, I think her case may be better, and that my Samuel, who settled in Randolph Co. NC, may not be the son of John and Agnes after all. I hope to be able to research this further.

My Samuel is probably the one who appears in Henry County VA in the 1779 and 1780 tax lists, and is thought to have moved on to Randolph County NC about 1790, where at least two of his sons, John and Robert, had already settled. Samuel does not appear in the Randolph Co. 1790 census.

The other Samuel Gray moved to Tryon Co. NC and died there about 1775. For good treatments of this family, see the following sites:

http://members.aol.com/InmanGA/family.gray.html

http://familygenes.net/gray.htm

John's son William has been assumed to be the William Gray who settled in Guilford Co. NC and died there in 1794. However, this too is problematical: the other Samuel Gray also seems to have had a brother named William, who lived in Rutherford Co. NC.

Jacob Gray appears in land transactions in the 1750s in Augusta Co. VA, and has not been traced beyond that time.

David Gray served as a militia Captain in the Revolutionary War, and probably went with his brother Joseph to Washington Co. VA after the war.

Ann Gray appears to have been unmarried at the time of her father's death, whereas her sister Elizabeth received only a token inheritance, suggesting that she was already married and settled, and had received her share earlier.

Benjamin Gray was under age when his father died, and chose his brother William as guardian in 1759, when he was age 14, indicating that he was born about 1745. He ultimately moved to Kentucky, where he died about 1818.

DNA analysis could potentially be useful in sorting out what appear to be two different Gray families. However, at this writing (May 2008) I don't recognize a descendant of either among the samples already analyzed by the Gray DNA project.

Third Generation

Children of Samuel Gray
John Gray (1749-1792) m. Jannet Greer (1748-1835)
Robert Gray m. Jane ??
William Gray
Edward Gray

Based on Jo White Linn's book, I thought Samuel's wife was named Agnes. However, the Samuel Gray who died in Tryon/Lincoln Co. NC in 1775 names his wife as Agnes, so at this point I don't know the name of the wife of Samuel of Randolph County.

Samuel's son John Gray was in Randolph Co. NC by the time of the Revolution, marrying Jannet Greer there in 1776 and serving as a Captain in the 3rd NC regiment in 1778.

Fourth Generation

Fifth Generation

Child of John Gray and Charity Swaim
Grier Gray (1817-1874) m. Pernecia Lula Leach (1820-1905)

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Children of William Gray and Charity Mendenhall
Elizabeth Gray (1816-1916)
Margaret Gray (1819-?)
Jane Gray (1825-1915)
Benjamin Gray (1827-?)
Nancy Gray (1832-?)
McKendree Gray (1837-?) m. Nancy Teague Clark (1832-?)
Franklin Gray (1841-?) m. Elizabeth ??
Savannah Gray (1844-1915)

This is a very long child-bearing span for one woman. Is it possible that the youngest children were actually Charity's grandchildren? In 1850, both Elizabeth and Margaret are unmarried and living at home; either would be old enough to be the mother of McKendree, Franklin and Savannah.

Sixth Generation

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Children of John S. Gray and Susan Hiatt
Job Oscar Gray (1852-1914) m. Deborah Ellen Coltrane (1858-1928)
Flora Rebecca Gray (1853-1889) m. Claude A. Steed
Lorenzo Gray (1853-?)
Kisey Gerjele Gray (1855-1910) m. Thomas J. Hoover
Erbie Smith Gray (1857-1938) m. Margaret A. Wall
Dorsey Allen Gray (1859-1930) m. Rama Linthicum
Margaret Alese Gray (1862-1943)

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Children of Alexander Gray and Nancy Beckerdite
Samuel F. Gray (ca. 1835-?)
Robert C. Gray (ca. 1838-?)
Elizabeth G. Gray (ca. 1841-?)
Alexander Gray (ca. 1849-?)

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Children of Robert Gray and Mary Millis Wiley
Samuel Wiley Gray (1842-1863), killed at Gettysburg
Martha Elizabeth Gray (1844-1943) m. Abraham Penn Gibson (1842-1892)
James Alexander Gray (1846-1918) m. Aurelia Bowman (1848-1914)
Robert Terelius Gray (1848-1912) m. Carolina Lilly (1852-1946)
Mary Isabella Gray (1850-1822) m. Thomas Barber
Robah Fidus Gray (1852-1900) m. Lelia Rosalind Wilson (1858-1924)
Eugene Early Gray (1855-1940) m Elizabeth Anderson Huske (1861-1946)
Emory Shannon Gray (1857-1934) m. Theodosia Lipscomb Fitzgerald(1868-1901)
William Theodore Gray (1860-1918) m. Ada Neal Dodson (1865-1902)

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Children of Abner Gray and Irena Gardner
Marie Cornelia Gray (1839-?) m. Daniel Coltrane (1837-1885)
unnamed infant Gray (b. & d. 1841)
George Gardner Gray (1843-1923) m. Julie Porter (1854-1920)
Julius Abel Gray (1846-1863)
Abner Alexander Gray (1848-1870)
Lydia Mary Gray (1851-1888) m. Daniel Coltrane, her sister's widower

Children of Abner Gray and Hannah Millikan Blair
John W. Gray (1860-?) died in childhood
Flora Eugenia Gray (1861-1929) m. Conder Parson Jerome (1857-1951)
Bettie J. Gray (1862-1930) m. R.B. Strickland
Emma B. Gray (1866-1933) did not marry
Robert L. Gray (1867-1920) did not marry

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Children of Grier Gray and Pernecia Leach
John F. Gray (1841-1908) m. Margaret McAdams (1845-1917)
Hugh Leach Gray (1843-1919) m. Rachael E. Northam (1852-1925)
Sarah Jane Gray (1844-1926) m. Zimri Lewellan (1841-1912)
Mary Gray (1846-1869)
Charity Gray (1848-1936) m. 1) Thomas Marsh, 2) Simeon Wall
Lydia Gray (1850-1882) m. Jarvis Pickett (1850-1929)
Martha E. Gray (1851-1881) m. George B. Ellington (1837-1911)
Christopher Gray (1853-1854)
Pernecia L. Gray (b. & d. 1855)
Nancy Cornelia Gray (1858-1940) m. Branson Coltrane (1855-1891)
Parthenia Gray (1860-?) m. Rufus Coltrane
Nathaniel Gray died in childhood
William Grier Gray (1862-1880)

Sources

Gray/Grey Lines newsletter, edited by Mary Lou House

Roster of Soldiers from North Carolina in the American Revolution. Genealogical Publishing Co., Baltimore, 1967, originally published by NC DAR 1932

Randolph County NC 1850 census

Additional Resources

http://www.familytreedna.com/public/GRAY%20or%20GREY%20Surname/ GRAY family DNA project